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Birth
Katie describes it as a 'momentous' time in her life when she writes to her mother with the 'news' of her pregnancy. She particularly felt the distance from her family during her first pregnancy. Her letters frequently express a desire for family support, in the preparations for the baby and because of her inexperience. Descriptions are filled with detail which was Katie's way of having her family 'participate' in her life. Her inexperience was dealt with by purchasing two recommended texts on the subject. The last paragraph of the following extract illustrates with what weight the forthcoming birth was viewed.
Drayton ... January 16th, 1868
"My very dear Mother,
... I find plenty to employ me in preparing the wardrobe of your expected Grandchild! It is such pretty interesting work but I must say I often long for sisterly sympathy & assistance! ... I have cut out the little gowns & shirts, the latter are most ravishing! The flannels I am making from that nice piece of Saxony flannel I brought with me. They look so charming with white silk binding!
... I have had a very nice book lent me, called 'Dr. Bull's Hints to Mothers' of which I intend to procure a copy for reference. It is really valuable for anyone who has not their friends at hand to consult & who, like me, are so ignorant of all that pertains to their new situation. I shall also get 'Dr. Graham on the management of children' which has been much recommended.
27th ... When you get this, my time of trial will be approaching. I know you will pray for me, that I may have strength & patience, & that all may go well with me & my little one. You must not be too anxious about me. I do not think I am nervous myself, tho' I am so much alone. I have, thank God, such good health, that with reasonable care, I trust all may go well." (Bonnin, pp. 94-96)
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Infancy
Katie's anticipation that her first child would be a boy does not inhibit her delight in her new baby daughter, a delight which Walter shared. Her letters from this time are filled with little references to Ethel and how she is developing. Katie and Walter, on the whole, write in a light-hearted and optimistic manner, illustrated by their playful use of words like 'metrolopus' for metropolis. These messages of her returning health and strength are all the more poignant for knowing the foreboding with which giving birth was viewed.
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Canning Downs ... April 16th, 1868
"My dear Mrs. Fowler,
I have joyful news to communicate. Katie has presented me with a little girl. She was confined on the 3rd., at four in the morning. Since that time all has gone well with both of them." (Bonnin, p. 102)
Drayton, November 2nd, 1868
"My dearest Mardee,
I have much pleasure in sending you a representation (although inadequate) of yr little colonial Grandchild. I hope it will give you some little idea of my sweet little Deldel, but it does not half do her justice. Her face is much fatter than it appears in the Photo & the expression is not at all her natural one, which is so good tempered & beaming, but the light made her frown, which gives her a constrained look. ... I wanted to have her taken in my lap, but the artist said it was difficult to get both in focus, & was sure to be a failure, so I did not try it.
It was Baby's first visit to the 'Metrolopus' of Toowoomba, when I took her in the Buggy to be photoed. She had never been out of Drayton before." (Bonnin, p. 129)
Ethel, aged 6 months, Photograph Album vol. 1, p. 16(a) |